@arisudotexe true lol, my age gap (won't be specific though, for my bf's privacy) is fairly normie too, so if i weren't below the "magical age" americans think exist no one (except twitter probably lol) would care
@nep @arisudotexe My age gap with my first boyfriend out of High School is greater than the age gap with my girlfriend, but the latter was deemed pedophilia of the highest order.
@nep @arisudotexe And there was honestly a huge power imbalance that was meaningful (he was my manager and used that constantly as a threat) and he was abusive (not sexually), but I would still reflect on the sex as neutral for the Rind Survey if it occurred 8 months earlier and was actual pedophilia.
i think i hold this opinion cuz my preferred age gap is like 8-12 years at least lol
@arisudotexe This reminds me of how irksome I find "step-" or cousin incest. Not that I have anything against either when it's real beings, but it's certainly not what I'm hoping for when I hear "incest" - and step-incest isn't actually incest at all in my opinion.
@violet_rose @arisudotexe one day the nuclear family will be dead and incest will be an irrelevant concept. but for now it's forbidden, and that is precisely what makes things hot
@higanbana @arisudotexe The forbidden is certainly part of the appeal, but a large amount is also specifically the way it works in nuclear families - an especially deep and lifelong degree of closeness, when combined with intimacy, makes for the strongest possible bonds.
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I dont agree with this take vi
@Clown @higanbana @arisudotexe If you interpreted this as a defense of the nuclear family, it wasn't. The nuclear family structure is responsible for a lot of things I consider extremely negative, and the fact that there are a limited number of occasional positives doesn't change it being overall bad.
@violet_rose@cannibal.cafe @higanbana@cannibal.cafe @arisudotexe@social.isekco.re i guess
I just think youre wrong that the nuclear family is the cause of those things
@arisudotexe And yet people will act like it's going to destroy that 16 year old forever, that poor lil' kid that has no idea what teh sex is and has never touched themselves because they are jus' a little kid.
@ThrowawayAI @arisudotexe ppl retarded its always the 16yo startin it
@arisudotexe real But i like to pretend it is just for funsies
@arisudotexe 15 and 22? 14 and 23? 13 and 24?